Not exactly sure where to start.. We have been referring to each other as just our first initial for many years now. Ex: "I'm hangin out with J tonight, we're goin on a hot date" It mostly began because it was easier to text, is what I believe. Now its somewhat of a nick name. We have also carved it into tree's where ever we go, and write it in the sand on the beach or at a lake. Its basically J plus A = the greatest story ever told.